The Myth of the Four Mirrors
By: Dr. Mona Wahba
In an ancient land, there was a legend of four mystical mirrors hidden deep within a sacred forest. Each mirror reflected not just the physical appearance of those who gazed into it, but also their inner beliefs and perceptions about themselves and others.
The first mirror, known as the Mirror of Confidence, showed the viewer standing tall, radiating self-assurance. However, everyone around them appeared small and insignificant. Those who saw this reflection often became arrogant, believing they were superior to others. This was the fact of “I’m OK, You’re Not OK”.
The second mirror, called the Mirror of Self-Doubt, displayed the viewer as weak and insignificant, while others appeared powerful and majestic. People who saw this reflection felt inadequate and often sought validation from others, falling into the trap of “I’m Not OK, You’re OK”.
The third mirror, the Mirror of Despair, revealed a bleak scene where both the viewer and everyone around them appeared broken and hopeless. This reflection plunged individuals into a state of mutual distrust and hopelessness, embodying “I’m Not OK, You’re Not OK”.
The fourth mirror, the Mirror of Harmony, was the most elusive and revered. It reflected the viewer and everyone around them as equals, each person glowing with inner light and mutual respect. Those who gazed into this mirror saw a world of balance and acceptance, where everyone’s worth was recognized. This was the ideal state of “I’m OK, You’re OK”.
According to the legend, only those who embarked on a journey of self-discovery and growth could find the Mirror of Harmony. They needed to learn empathy, build their self-esteem, and cultivate a positive outlook towards others. Those who succeeded in seeing their reflection in this mirror were said to achieve lasting peace and fulfillment, spreading harmony wherever they went.